A new survey reveals fear, uncertainty and doubt about children’s online activity and how to control it.
Pollsters commissioned by Finnish cyber-security company F-Secure asked UK parents about how much time their children spend online. Only a tiny fraction (2%) said they had no family rules about time spent on games, smartphone apps and PlayStation. More than one third (36%) were worried that the youngsters spend “too much” time online.
So in a joint project between F-Secure and the PassW0rd radio show broadcast on London’s ResonanceFM to 800,000 people globally, we asked scientists and parents whether games were a preparation for the future, an act of escapism, or an activity that destroys family cohesion.
Asking the questions are we spending too much time online and what is too much?
As you can hear even the experts disagree.
So does being online mean you are not part of the real world or are you in the new world. Are those online simply the embracing a world that their parents are too old for? Here are the views of some of those we talked to.
Depression and delayed adolescence
American psychiatrist Jean Twenge of San Diego has researched generational differences in US teenagers and discovered that the smartphone generation (she calls it iGen) grows up later. That means dating, having sex, getting a part-time job and learning to drive all happen at a significantly later stage than in previous generations. And Twenge also identifies a stronger dependence on parents and an increase in depression, suicidal thoughts and actual suicides. Her book warns that American teens, especially girls, are becoming isolated and socially inept because of excessive use of smartphone apps such as Snapchat, Whatsapp and Instagram.
Addicted to social media or online games
But that’s in the USA. British schoolchildren aged 11 to 18 have been studied by scientists in Dr. Olatz López-Fernández’s team at the University of Barcelona.
The team found that only 10% were “problem users” and regarded themselves as addicted to social media or gaming.
Online myopia, dystopia, or a metaversal world of the future we should all be inhabiting. Is the past the real world and the future a virtual world?
Future Intelligence
Meanwhile the renowned Berlin psychiatrist Dr Mazda Adli, who’s recently published, ‘Stress in the City’, a book about the effect of modern life on health, finds that it is not technology that is to blame but the loss of traditions, spirituality and moral compass, together with the ability to shop online twenty four hours a day.
Small wonder that parents are confused!
Future Intelligence interviewed some typical British mums as well as experts in our podcast about how families limit children’s time online.
What are the Family Rules?
F-Secure found more than half (56%) thought their children spent too much time online and more than one-fifth (21%) admitted their little ones were online when they should be asleep. The cyber security company used the results of the survey to inform the use of its new product, an option called “Family Rules” that comes with the new F-Secure SAFE software package.
It works by providing the technical ability for parents to switch off their children’s mobile devices and internet access is built in to the system. But F-Secure’s Paula Al Soufi stresses that this is not a technological solution. Rather she regards the Family Rules as a platform for negotiating with children, so that they agree on their own various different limits, to allow time for family meals, homework, sports, music and other real-world activities, as well as having fun online.
“With my son it definitely helps that he knows when he is allowed to play games and that there is only one time. Otherwise he would be constantly asking for more.”
What works for the Al Soufis in Helsinki, Finland, might not be suitable for families with older, teenage children. Future Intelligence Gaming Editor Brad Davis points out :”It can take up to an hour to get to the next level, or the stage where you feel you have achieved something in the game.”
Big Mother is watching you…
Futurologist Alexandra Montgomery Whittington is also sceptical about technological limits on behaviour. She coined the phrase “Big Mother” with its juxtaposition of Orwellian surveillance and the well-meaning – but oppressive – desire of a “nanny state” or typical mum to monitor and limit their children’s enjoyment, for their own good. In her research Whittington cites a ten year old who was, in the scientist’s opinion, addicted to her Fitbit wifi-enable wristband, which measured every step, counted the calories consumed and charted how many hours and minutes the child slept at night.
Shall we feel the need to escape to the Dark Web before long?
Interviewed by Future Intelligence, Professor Whittington predicted:
“By 2025 we might see people logging on to the Dark Web, just to regain some privacy“
She points out that the constant monitoring might be benign, and for our own good – but it is still surveillance, and creates big pools of highly personal data that could be hacked, sold or held to ransom. It would be valuable to health insurance companies and law enforcement agencies.
Future Intelligence Editor Peter Warren, himself a father of four, can see advantages in the F-Secure system for programming family rules into a solution that does not only operate in the home but also outside on mobile devices, saving young people from the risk of hacking by criminals or grooming by sexual predators when they are out of their parents’ sight.
“My children would be constantly trying to negotiate for more access or more time, and so we would get into a dialogue about what they want to look at online and why. That’s a good thing.”
Family Rules is available as part of several F-Secure products. This article is produced in association with F-Secure. Other solutions are available.
